Love endures

Love's beginning is filled with joy, an overwhelming sensation of connection that inebriates the mind. Carefree and without boundaries, there is no equal to the chemistry of first love. The flaws and quirks in your partner are cute and to be adored. It is easy to think that it will always be this way, with no effort required, because you yearn for each other so much.

As your love grows, you commit to one another and find comfort and satisfaction in a future together. Time passes, and you are acutely aware that these flaws are no longer sweet, and that you find them irritating, and no longer acceptable. For if they truly loved you, how could they do those things that bothered you so? You find rocky paths before you as you settle into mundane daily life, with less thought of sharing dreams and hopes, and more of tending to practical concerns.

Resentment creeps in before you realize its there, a nagging feeling that your partner does not care. Speak plainly to each other, with the greater goal in mind, that of a long lasting partnership with your best friend. Tears will come for both of you throughout your journey, and this will make your connection stronger. Share your fears, and avoid blame, for you are in it together. Love is a trek that requires committment and effort every day. To show your love in words and actions, to share your vulnerability when you feel so small. To support and protect them when they are in need, and to feel their comforting hand as you walk in silence.

Our moments together are fleeting, and remembering that helps to you focus on what really matters most - nurturing the love you have for your partner. Too easily we throw barbs in their direction, ready to defend against their attacks. It is because you care so much that you are so passionate about how they should act. Love endures and love remains because life is so much smaller and bleaker without it.

Which team is stronger? The one that never argues and has never failed or the partnership that falters through hardship yet prevails? Each hurdle cements your connection to each other, drawing you closer and more in tune. Listen to each other, and you will find the times of happiness are unsurpassable and unforgettable.